AWESOMEGUY333, you can ask around for new clothing.
There is no actual gender, just clothing option. Some players will surely give you a new suit for free if you ask nicely.
Seriously lightnz, Kongregate wouldn't allow the game to be online if that was the case. It has been reviewed manually by staff of Kongregate and I can assure you that you should pay more attention to the actual message you think you received from your AV ...
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